Ronald Anthony Pagnini Sr. 87,

Ronald Anthony Pagnini Sr. 87, of Milford, passed away on Saturday December 5^th at home with his beloved wife Phillie at his side as she held his hand and sang their favorite song, “I Can’t Stop Loving You”. Her unending devotion never waivered as she watched his health decline over the past 19 years after a stroke that occurred on December 5, 2001.

Ron was born on November 13, 1933 in Walpole, Massachusetts to Edillio and Anne (DiGregorio) Pagnini and was predeceased by his brother Robert F. Pagnini who he loved and adored.

At the young age of 14, he began working daily after school along side his father in the family owned business, The Music Nook, in downtown Milford. Being a successful businessman became his passion for a total of 54 years. He proudly instilled in each and every customer and his dedicated employees to “Enjoy Life More with Music”. Some considered him a Milford ‘treasure’, known for his warm smile, honest demeanor, and his vast knowledge of all things musical. He had a way of making you believe in yourself and there was always a lesson to be learned or taught by him.

He was a born leader and took enormous pride in leading the Milford High School Class of 1951 as President. He treated every classmate with love and respect and considered them extended family.

One classmate, Philomena Cardone caught his eye when she walked into the Music Nook for the first time. It was ‘love at first sight’! They became high school sweethearts and married five years later on June 25, 1955. They celebrated 65 years of marriage this past June.

Ron had a deep appreciation for the arts and he admired the work of N. C. Wyeth and Andrew Wyeth.

He encouraged his children to look for beauty in the world and to discover all that it has to offer. He was a collector of sports memorabilia, and so much more. He was excited to share his collections with his children and grandchildren.

In his younger years, he loved playing ice hockey, tennis and going fishing. He loved to travel whenever he had the opportunity, taking his children and grandchildren to Disney and Aruba, and his wife to Italy, Ireland, Morocco, and riding on the Orient Express. His family was his lifeline and his eyes spoke volumes and lit up with each and every visit.

As a downtown businessman, he became actively involved in civic organizations and was a founding member of both the Claflin Hill Symphony and the Milford Downtown Partnership as well as a member of the Chamber of Commerce, organizing the sidewalk sales days with live music that brought the town together. He supported the Milford Public School music programs as well as those in surrounding towns. Each year he could be counted on to volunteer his services to set up sound systems for the Milford High graduation ceremonies and Memorial Day programs.

He was a lifetime parishioner of Sacred Heart of Jesus Church in Milford.

With all that Ron experienced and accomplished in his lifetime, it was his love and devotion to his wife, children, grandchildren and extended family that was undeniable to all that knew him. He loved in a way that was gentle and endearing. In his last years he taught his grandchildren and great-grandchildren the most powerful and important lesson of all and that is the unending love and support of family is life’s most precious gift.

In addition to his wife Philomena (Cardone), he is survived by his children LuAnn Malnati and her husband Paul, Jayne Moynihan and her husband Pete, and Ronald Pagnini Jr. and his wife Maureen (Eplite), his grandchildren, Marla Baisley and her husband Lee, Luke Chiccarelli and his wife Lauren (Haskell), James Malnati, Janice Moynihan Forster and her husband Tim, Erin Moynihan, Patrick Moynihan, Jesse Pagnini, Victoria Pagnini, Quirina Allegrezza, and Luke Allegrezza, and great-grandchildren, Caleb Johnson, Ryder and Summer Baisley, Riley, Liana, Leo, and Lillian Chiccarelli, and many loving nieces and nephews.

Gratitude and heartfelt thanks are extended to Comfort Care and the many caregivers that treated Ron with love and respect during his lengthy illness.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Saturday, December 12, 2020 at 11:00 AM at Sacred Heart of Jesus Church, 7 East Main Street, Milford, MA (upper church). Burial will follow in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Milford MA. Visiting hours will be held on Friday, December 11, 2020 from 4:00 to 7:00 PM at Consigli Ruggerio Funeral Home, 46 Water Street, Milford MA.

Note: Strict Covid protocols will be enforced at both the church and funeral home. These include wearing a face covering, social distancing of 6 feet, and no gathering indoors.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: St Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Giving, 501 Saint Jude’s Place, Memphis, TN 3810 www.stjude.org Oliva Fund for Cancer Care, 14 Prospect Street, Milford, MA 01757foundation.milfordregional.org/the-Oliva-fund-for-cancer-care/ Claflin Hill Symphony Orchestra, 208 Main Street, Suite 22, Milford, MA 01757 www.claflinhill.org

Guest Book

I'm so sorry to hear the passing of Ron. Growing up in the 60's, if you weren't in a band you were no one. Our family and many others weren't rich. But Ron was there to help us make our dream come to reality. I bought my first Guitar from Ron. And everyone in our band did as well. As did a lot of other kids. We never made it big. But Ron made those years the best. And our teen years were big. The best because you Ron. And in later years when my son wanted to play drums, It was Ron who again made my sons dream big. Ron would do all that he could for us kids. God Bess him for help giving many kids in the Milford area to have great memories and live the dream. RIP Ron. Thank you
Verne L. Thayer

RON AND PHILOMENA great people to know , their contribution to Milford as a family and businessman deserve much respect. Our condolences to all the family.
DON AND ALLYSON LEVESQUE

LuAnn Jayne and Ronnie, I am so sorry to hear about your dads passing. He had such a gentle spirit and infectious smile. Not only were we blessed to know your family as our neighbors but also as the most frequented stop at the Music Nook when we were growing up. Praying that beautiful memories will be a source of comfort to you all. God Bless
Susan Cenedella Desmeule

To the Pagnini family my deepest sympathies for the loss of your mom and dad
David F Negrotti

So sorry to hear of the passing of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Sincere sympathy Joanne Cenedella Supernor
Joanne Cenedella Supernor

Dear Ron..Jayne...Luann..and. Family.... Auntie. Is. Sooo. Sorry. For. All. Your. Sadness.. Love. All. Of. You... Auntie. Annnnnnna. ❤️
Auntie. Annnnnnnna....

With heartfelt sympathy to the entire family. Theresa, Linda, and Andrew Lizotte
Linda R Lizotte-Douglas

My deepest sympathy to the Panini family. Have do many memories of going to the store , still have Panasonic stereo your dad sold to our family. All the times looking at records and talking to Ron about drums. He always had time to talk to you and a big smile. RIP sincerely
Joe Tosches

Sending our heartfelt condolences to a wonderful family for the loss of your dear father. DIanne and JOse Pinto
Dianne and JOse Pinto

Heartfelt condolences to all the family. Ron was a truly good person through and through. May he rest in peace.
Lisa DiDonato

It was an honor to know you Ron
Bill Tosches MD

My condolences to the Pagnini family and friends for their loss . May he Rest In Peace .
Jack Sannicandro

I’ve been sitting here trying to put my thoughts and memories about Ronnie into words. It is kind of difficult to do without being repetitive. All the tributes to him and the family that I have read have been so beautifully put. Those words say it all. He made a difference and an impact on so many lives. Ronnie, thank you ,thank you so much for all you did for me in the past. You left a lasting impression on me in more ways than you could have ever imagined. My heartfelt condolences go out to Ma Phillie and the entire Pagnini family. Also, I will never ever be able to look at a feather duster and not think of you! My love to you all. 🎼❤️
Robert Chiccarelli

Thoughts and prayers to all his family.
Kimberly M. (Bega) Naujoks-Leite

Sincere condolences to the entire family on the recent passing of Ron. The Music Nook was the go to place for LP records, instruments, and lessons back in the day. I purchased my first real HiFi system from Ron when he was selling KLH music systems in the 1970's. All my best to the family at this difficult time and may he rest in peace.
Dave Grillo

Dear Ron, LuAnn, and Jayne. Sally and I extend our deepest condolences for the loss of you dad. He was truly a gentleman and a caring person who always stopped to chat about family and Milford. He will be sorely missed. May he Rest In Peace.
Michael Brita

Milford has lost a SUPER star,,,a man who was so kind hearted,,so great to all us kids back in the day when 45 records were a smash. When we all went searching for the newest in Beatles records. If you were interested in playing a certain instrument the Music Nook was the place to go. Ron sold me my first set of Slingerland drums, (which I still use to this day). My brother Ribs, still plays around with the Lowrey organ too, thanks to Ron's wonderful and so loving wife Philly. Stopping by so often to get a new pair of the latest drum sticks, after a lesson from Bob Varney across the street. Please know Ron's memory will never pass. Having such a strong will to live, may he be a lesson to us all.
Paul and Robert (RIBS) Perry

"Hey Ronnie, can I have a Rico #3, Boots said I need a new reed". And so went most of my conversations with this warm, friendly guy who was always there to help us kids. RIP and good journey.
Don Bodio

Dear Phillie and family I have such fond memories of Ronnie,Beginning when I was a teenager in going into the music nook and listening To records in a little booth Ronnie was always there to advise me on the best hits and later in life As we opened our business, the Milford school of dancing, Ronnie was so helpful in setting up our music he was a wonderful Man and friend and you were such a devoted couple. Rest in peace dear Ronnie and carry on your music in heaven
Dawnette and Mike Niro. Ft Myers, Fl

So sorry to hear such a wonderful man and lovely family!
Ann Burchill

Sincere condolences Phillie and family. Jim and Carol Purtell
Jim and Carol Purtell

Ronnie truly was a Milford “treasure” to every teenager growing up during the 60’s. He was OUR disc jockey and our mentor supporting our love of any music genre or instrument. He was a role model for every young person who was lucky enough to walk into the Music Nook - and I don’t know a kid who didn’t! Rest well, Ronnie. I will always remember you with a smile.
Susan Tieuli Gala

We all Have nothing but fond memories growing up in Milford and enjoying your dad at the Music Nook. Everyone went in there. We all had such a great childhood growing up in that town and your dad was so much a part of it. Our thoughts and prayers to all of your family. We lost another great person Tom Burke and Sue Guido-Burke
Sue Guido-Burke

we are so sorry for the passing of Ronnie . He was such a nice person. we loved going in the Music Nook . Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family May he RIP.
Doris and Tommy Ortla.

Dearest Ronnie Jr. And Family, My sincerest sympathy in the loss of your beloved dad. Sending prayers to all of you. Your Classmate, Janet (Roy) Zavota
Janet Zavota

Ronnie jr and family my sincere condolences for the passing of your dad he was truly a Milford icon we all at Johnny jacks restaurant had the pleasure of serving him many times with his loving wife and family may he Rest In Peace Catherine pasacane
Catherine pasacane

So sorry to hear the loss of Ronnie. I remember nany times going into the Music Nook and always talking to him. He had duch a nice smile and always made you feel welcomed and willing to help you any way he could. He was such a good man. May you R.I.P. now and may God watch over you and keep you in his loving arms. Our thoughts and prayers go out the whole family.
The Reis Family

Rest In Peace Ronnie ❤️ Your Kindness Reached So Many in Milford !
Mary Ramaskewich Costa

My love and prayers go out to the entire family. Ronnie had a long lasting influence on me and I try to recall all of the life lessons I learned working for him. He made all of us who knew him a better person.
Tom Dufour

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.Ronnie was a great inspiration to many.
Naureen alzerinu

My sincere condolences to Victoria & her dad Ronnie, Jr and the entire family. Love, Amy Rudnick
Amy Rudnick

He truly was a Milford "treasure ". Ron would allow us as teenagers to come into the store and "tickle the ivories" at the same time encouraging the musical spirit within. Never suspicious of anyone with the desire to explore a musical curiosity. I am grateful to this man who encouraged me to sing and play piano at a sensitive 18 years of age. RIP Sir - you were an inspiration to MANY!❤
Carol Pacitto-Sabatinelli

I am very sorry for the loss of a Milford legend, Ron Pagnini May the Lord keep your soul and comfort and bless your family 🙏🏻
Mark Wyspianski

Very sorry for the great loss 🙏 love you and thinking of you all and praying for comfort to all. Wonderful family 💖
Sherry Sowers

Sincere condolences to your family. Philly, Luanne, Jayne and Ronny You are in our thoughts.🥀 Sincerely Rita Diotalevi, Joni Costa & family
Joni COSTA

I have so many memories of Auntie Phillie and Uncle Ronnie. I went into the U.S.A.F. in 1978 January. I have primarily lived in California ever since. I have not been to 77 Congress St. in over 20 years. I am from extremely humble beginnings, but Uncle Ronnie took an active interest in my music. He and Auntie were extremely kind to me. I realize the humility that both Uncle Ronnie and Auntie Phillie showed.
anthonynardi75@gmail.com

Our sincere condolences to all of his family. I have fond memories of him and The Music Nook. he will be sadly missed but never forgotten.
Diana & Mark Stoico, Dunnellon, Florida

Thoughts and Prayers to all his Family
Paul & Lisa Riccardelli

Ronnie you were a great friend to every musician that ever walked into the Music Nook. I remember you extending many musicians credit because we did not have the cash to purchase a good instrument. You were always gracious and a great guy. There were not many like you. RIP Ron.
Rick Biagetti

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